# Get Sorted®

> Simplify the life within


## Posts

- [Missing the Drive!](https://reetuverma.com/missing-the-drive/): Have you ever come across a situation where your car turns on but doesn’t start? Or despite having a good battery, it still doesn’t start? What causes this? The most common causes could be a faulty starter or a faulty alternator that generates the power for your car’s electrical components, or the engine not getting at least one of the major components it needs to start – ie. Fuel, Air, Spark, or Compression. What do you do? You identify or seek help to identify the cause and provide the car with what it needs to keep moving. It requires occasional […]
- [TRUST YOUR JOURNEY](https://reetuverma.com/trust-your-journey/): Despite of being intellectually aware, we tend to give into the situations that as per us are not conducive towards what we want in life or where we want to go. We start looking at it as failures and start allowing our energies into the limiting thoughts and beliefs that further limits our effort. That’s when we unconsciously get into a victim state of mind which is somehow a comfort zone for the human mind whether we realize it or not. It takes a very strong push, big inspiration, huge effort or a strong compulsive need to bring ourselves out […]
- [I DECIDE!](https://reetuverma.com/i-decide/): While the hangover of the New Year celebrations is over, let’s get back to taking charge. Let’s take ownership of self and our life because the most important element of my life is ‘I’ 2022 is about me! To bring about the positive change in my life, I realize it’s all up to me. I realize that the power is within me & magic happens from within me. I decide if I want this day & this year to be a significant one. I decide my actions in each and every moment. I decide my intensions before I decide my […]
- [Are you a victim of SHOULD?](https://reetuverma.com/are-you-a-victim-of-should/): We have been brought up with a conditioning that there is always a right answer, a right way that you must find and act accordingly. And that one answer is what keeps us wander recklessly leading us to lose an opportunity to really live our lives. And the outcome is that we still never find it. Whatever we do, is never enough, doesn’t make everyone happy. And neither makes us ever satisfied because we always operate from the approach of what has a validation, what gets approved by others, what looks right to all. Let’s look at how we talk […]
- [Women's day is not about a gender. It's about YOU- beyond the biological gender!](https://reetuverma.com/womens-day-is-not-about-gender/): Every human is a combination of the two dimensions, 2 energies – male and female and an equal combination is what brings out the real potential and power of human life. Considering male & female only as 2 genders is a sign of spiritual immaturity. Irrespective of the gender, one’s true form is that of Ardhnareshwar – a combination of Shiv (Male) & Shakti (Female) within the same body. Our social conditioning that leads to certain beliefs and practice certain behaviours about the genders limits us to awaken our true power and this is true for both men and women. […]
- [Do you still intend to run too fast?](https://reetuverma.com/do-you-still-intend-to-run-too-fast/): Haven’t we run enough to make our FUTURE brighter? More money, a bigger house, expansive vacations, superior jobs & a never ending  race leaving behind what matters most to be attended to some day. While 2020 showed us the mirror and brought us back on the ground to help us learn minimalism – that we don’t really need so much, it taught us to start seeing what truly adds meaning to life and what really means happiness, things that we had been putting off to experience at a later date some day. Who knows the future – what would it […]
- [Happily Imperfect!](https://reetuverma.com/happily-imperfect/): How do you feel when you meet people who claim to be a perfectionist? There was a time when I used to find those people very cool who claimed to be a perfectionist and I used to feel small and insufficient because I thought I was full of imperfections. I used to try and fail and learn and then try again to discover a better way of doing something. I never knew the best solutions. I wanted to be a perfectionist myself so one day decided to be one. I thought to myself – what would it take to become […]
- [Does marriage mean commitment?](https://reetuverma.com/does-marriage-mean-commitment/): People who believe marriage will bring them commitment for the other or vice versa and bring them security in life must really check some facts. How many couples do you know who stay together because of the fear of what will people say, or for the sake of their kids, or for the sake of their old parents, or for their legal financial security, or their social image while feeling uncomfortable in a relationship and probably having relationships out of their marriage? I bet you would know a good count or may think if I am talking about you? Those […]
- [The fundamental vitamin for a relationship!](https://reetuverma.com/non-numquam-eius-modi-tempora-incidunt-ut-labore/): Ever experienced how does it feel to lose a relationship with someone veryyyyyy close? Doesn’t it feel like a crucial part of your soul being amputated? The whole experience of life changes – everything around us that once felt joyful, now hurts to the core. And we are left with a feeling of ache in the heart, blames, complaints & despair. And these feelings don’t let you truly identify the root of what went wrong. Our focus remains on transactional behaviours that led to separation and suck our energy & sanity to understand and courage to un-do the damage. Time […]
- [Thank the sharks in your life!](https://reetuverma.com/in-my-experience-there-is/): Ever noticed a life line going up&down on the pulse rate monitor in hospitals? What does it indicate? What does it do to you? And how about the same life line going flat on the monitor? The life line going up & down say there’s life…the person is alive and is a relief to see it moving in waves. While a flat life line indicates death and we fear it seeing it on the monitor. But do we even understand the message that it gives about life? The heartbeat monitor teaches us that the lifelines going up & down is […]
- [Managing Teenage is a mindset that can be joyful and interesting!](https://reetuverma.com/managing-teenage-is-a-mindset-that-can-be-joyful-and-interesting/): Teenage is special. Teenage is sensitive. Teenage is a stage where individuality starts shaping up. It is interesting to see the perspective of this phase from the eyes of the child and the parents. While the parents, when being a child, experiences the same fire in themselves, they seem to be in denial or fearful when it comes to their own children. Ofcourse, the times have changed and children these days have much more exposure than we used to have as kids, but the spirit that starts shooting up is the same. That’s basically inevitable. The acceptance and right approach […]
- [Ability to ask for help is a virtue of strong](https://reetuverma.com/as-you/): Is it easy to ask for help? Try it for yourself and see how you find it. You may see that your self-image of who you think you are comes in the way. The image that you want people to think you are comes in the way. And what happens is that you choose the unreal image over the life’s desire and stay where you were & even get worse – unhappy, longing, and struggling between who you are and who you pretend to be. Because deep down your reality echos and you continue suppressing it with noises of disbeliefs […]
- [You may already be rich!](https://reetuverma.com/nisi-ut-aliquid-ex-ea-commodi-consequatur-quis-autem-vel-eum-iure-reprehenderit-qui-in-ea-voluptate/): A man with a net worth of 100 Million dollars doesn’t feel rich and happy & lives a life with vacuum because someone else has a net worth of 200 million dollars. A man who found a job that pays him 5000 more than his last pay while he was hoping for atleast  Rs. 1000 per month increase in his pay feels rich because he is now able to fulfil his wants besides his needs and still save Rs. 2500 every month. A child barefoot on the road been donated a pair of shoes with a hole in one, feels […]
- [Crisis Mindset – Understanding choices through Covid19 phase!](https://reetuverma.com/cupiditate-non-provident-similique-sunt-in-culpa-qui-officia-deserunt/): Mindset 1 – The world is suffering, people are dying of Corona virus all across the globe and there is no cure yet, it’s a global lock down, people are confined to stay at their homes, no one can go out to work, to meet their friends and family, economy is down and recession worse than 2009 is on its way, stock market is crashing, there is fear & uncertainty everywhere. Would our jobs be safe? How long would it take for our businesses to get back to its normal operations and profits? Would this virus have a lasting affect to […]
- [Did I ask for it? THE KILLER QUESTION](https://reetuverma.com/did-i-ask-for-it-the-killer-question/): Gautam is the world to Meera and she loves him boundlessly. She is so intimate with his soul that she would know what would he need even from a long distance and despite of her situations, state of mind etc, she is able to offer him whatever he needs before him asking for it & at times without even him knowing what his needs are. Perhaps he never had to ask her for anything – he just had it all, every single time. But when in arguments with Meera on her not getting enough attention or acknowledgment for how she […]
- [Life is simply an emotion within you!](https://reetuverma.com/accusantium-doloremque-laudantium-totam-rem-aperiam-eaque-ipsa-quae/): Don't act so surprised, Your Highness. You weren't on any mercy mission this time. Several transmissions were beamed to this ship by Rebel spies. I.
- [My choice has the power !](https://reetuverma.com/itaque-earum-rerum-hic-2/): I woke up a little agitated in the morning for a reason unknown to me and had to reach office by 9.30 am for an important meeting. Got ready in rush and left home in no time. I usually take an auto to the metro station and then another auto to office. Couldn’t understand why that day every auto driver wanted double money and none of their meters were working. Wasted almost 15 minutes waiting & negotiating but then agreed to pay their demanded charges. It was like everyone around wanted to demand a ransom of my need to reach […]
- [Failure is inevitable](https://reetuverma.com/ut-enim-ad-minim-2/): All the parents, teachers & mentors teach us how to be successful and help children train their mind for it. That’s an easy conversation. But what is missed is to help the child know that failures will happen, they are inevitable. They miss coaching the child on how to deal with failures. How does one see failures as, how does one handle the failure – emotionally, mentally and physically? Now that’s a difficult conversation.  Does this mean we are seeding failure in the child’s mind? Not true. I believe it’s important that we prepare our children for life. It is […]

## Pages

- [The Ultimate Life Assessment](https://reetuverma.com/the-ultimate-life-assessment/): The Ultimate Life Assessment The wheel of life acts as a representation of your life. It is a way to take an objective look at each crucial area of your life, and rate its relative quality level, so you can identify which areas need more attention than others. Consider each area like a spoke of a wheel: When one of the spokes is shorter than the others, it can throw the whole thing off balance.
- [Get Sorted Blogs](https://reetuverma.com/get-sorted-blogs/): Missing the Drive! Have you ever come across a situation where your car turns on but doesn’t start? Or despite having a good… Read More August 9, 2023 TRUST YOUR JOURNEY Despite of being intellectually aware, we tend to give into the situations that as per us are not conducive towards… Read More January 17, 2022 I DECIDE! While the hangover of the New Year celebrations is over, let’s get back to taking charge. Let’s take ownership of… Read More January 3, 2022 Are you a victim of SHOULD? We have been brought up with a conditioning that there is […]
- [Book](https://reetuverma.com/resources/book/): Get Sorted Your truth is what you want to see! Reality may be different. This book is inspired by the personal experience where the author lost her most precious 16 years of life believing in something that was not real; however, it was the truth of her life because she believed it was. Unless one day magic happened and she learned to see the evidence of what reality was. That’s when her life changed. The author explains how powerful the mind is and if trained well, it is not difficult to live the life that one really wants to and […]
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- [Services](https://reetuverma.com/services/): “Because Your Life Experience Matters.” Get Sorted® is all about helping you gain clarity—emotionally and mentally—so you can make empowered decisions and simplify your life within. Rooted in the principles of Emotional Intelligence, this work focuses on aligning your thoughts, emotions, and actions from within. Whether you’re seeking direction, healing, or growth—there’s something here for everyone. Explore the offerings and REACH OUT to begin your journey. 1:1  hourly Counselling session for Clarity & Emotional Wellness. For Individuals Seeking Clarity, Lightness, and Support These sessions are designed for those moments in life when you just want to talk things through, untangle your thoughts, […]
- [Home](https://reetuverma.com/): Feeling lost, stuck, or overwhelmed in life or relationships? Let’s find your way forward—together! Life can feel overwhelming—whether it’s uncertainty about the future, self-doubt, relationship struggles, or emotional ups and downs. Maybe you’re feeling disconnected from your true self, stuck in a cycle of negativity, or unsure how to manifest the life you truly desire. Whatever you’re facing, you don’t have to go through it alone. I’m Reetu Verma, a Life Transformation Coach, Speaker, and Author, and my passion is helping people like you find clarity, confidence, and a renewed sense of purpose. Over the years, I’ve worked with individuals […]
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- [Testimonials](https://reetuverma.com/testimonials/): What my clients say …..! Working with Reetu has been a truly transformative experience. She is an incredible listener, creating a safe and non-judgmental space where I feel heard, understood, and empowered. Her well structured program is thoughtfully designed yet flexible, ensuring that each session caters specifically to my needs and goals. Reetu’s coaching style is both insightful and empowering. She asks the right questions, helping me gain a deeper understanding of myself and my goals. What sets Reetu apart is her ability to guide with compassion while providing practical, actionable steps that lead to real progress. She never imposes […]
- [About](https://reetuverma.com/about/): Hi, I’m Reetu Verma—an Author, Speaker, and Life Transformation Coach. My journey into coaching wasn’t just a career choice; it was born from deep personal experiences that shaped me into who I am today. Before stepping fully into this role, I spent 21 years as a Strategic HR leader in global organizations like Prometric, Genpact Headstrong, Nortel Networks, SSP Worldwide, Xebia Architects, and the British Council. Coaching and mentoring were a crucial part of my corporate journey, but my passion for helping people transform their lives led me beyond boardrooms and into personal coaching. Having travelled to 14 countries and […]


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