Why I Do What I Do –

We spend 85% of our lives inside our minds—and our minds are powerful. They can create experiences that feel like absolute truth, even when they might be far from reality. I learned this the hard way.

For the first 16 years of my life, I lived through what I call “the mother of all tragedies”—not because something tragic happened, but because my mind convinced me that it did.

Despite being born to the most loving parents, I unknowingly developed Middle Child Syndrome—a psychological pattern that made me believe I was unloved, unwanted, and a second priority. My mind collected “evidence” to support this belief, trapping me in emotional distress so deep that I prayed for death every single day—not realizing that the love I craved was always around me.

It was only when my parents recognized my silent suffering that my life changed. They didn’t question my feelings or try to “fix” me with logic. They simply showed up, loved me harder, and gave me the space to heal. My mind finally learned to see love where it always existed.

But by then, 16 precious years were gone—years I can’t get back. I have no childhood or teenage memories worth holding on to. And yet, that experience gave me one of the most profound realizations of my life:

👉 Your mind shapes your reality—even when that reality isn’t real.

Time and again, I’ve witnessed this—not just in myself, but in others. People lose themselves in illusions, overcomplicate life, cling to pain, and miss out on the simple joy of being. I see relationships break over unspoken words and unchecked egos, people holding onto resentment that no longer serves them, and individuals feeling lost simply because they don’t see things from a different perspective.

That’s why I do what I do.

My Mission: Helping You “Get Sorted”

I believe that life is simpler than we make it. Our minds create complexities, but deep down, we all just want one thing—to live a life we won’t regret.

This is why I coach people to:

✔ Uncomplicate their thoughts and emotional struggles
✔ Understand what they truly want instead of what they “should” want
✔ Make decisions that serve them, without guilt or fear
✔ Move beyond regrets, ego battles, and self-doubt
✔ Consciously choose how they experience life, no matter the situation

This philosophy led me to create “GET SORTED”—not just as my personal brand but as a way of life. Whether through my book, blogs, podcasts, coaching sessions, or programs, my goal is to help people declutter their minds and live with clarity and purpose.

If you’re feeling lost, stuck, or struggling with relationships, emotions, or life decisions, let’s talk. You don’t have to do this alone. I’m here to help you “Get Sorted.”